I, Rebecca A. Wallach, declare as follows:

I am the individual who recorded and shared the videos referenced in this matter. These recordings were not altered or manipulated. I documented them in good faith, based on a reasonable belief that my mother and I were subjected to ongoing domestic violence, verbal threats, coercive control, and emotional abuse within our household.

I sought help through all appropriate channels, including:

• Repeated calls to law enforcement
• Multiple 911 calls
• In-person visits to Walnut Sheriff Dept
• Minimum of 22 calls in a single month- (or more) during the past year to the Walnut Sheriff Dept (Non-Emergency)
• Reports to Adult Protective Services
• Reports to FBI- case 1236343 
• p3tips-365-W180833
• Department of Aging
• Ombudsman
• Providence Saint Jude (My moms’ PCP)
• Multiple family members

Despite these efforts, every one of these avenues was systematically closed off to me due to John M. Wallach manipulating family members and authorities through my mother, whom he used as his “puppet” with intent to discredit me and taunt me.

Which is why I turned to social media for support (such as TikTok) I also started an online personal blog (beckieness.com) where I would document what was happening- should one of my phones be stolen by John (as he has done in the past) or should I end up in jail- due to John’s false allegations- that evidence would be readily available; yet still protected under a password.

John created a false illusion that I was the problem, but behind closed doors- that was not the case. Those resources became unavailable channels for help- rendering my attempts ineffective. John removed me from access to my mother’s HIPPA.  John eliminated me as her emergency contact—and not to protect her health or interests, but to conceal his neglect and prevent oversight after I had discovered that a severe infection was seen on a PET Scan that John himself took my mother to. (over 2 years ago) My mother had been suffering with a tooth infection for years, causing the infection to spread upwards, throughout the right side of moms’ sinus; (the same side as the tooth causing concern). The radiologists report states the severity, which tooth it was, (being tooth number 2), and. Their recommendations on where to follow up. John had known this information and he apparently discredited the findings from that PET scan. He did nothing, made no attempts to get the infection under control, he failed to take my mom in for any future appointments with that specialist, or any other specialists, medical professional, for a second opinion. For two years- John did nothing but yell, and scream at my mom, while her condition worsened.

It is a fact- That chronic inflammation (especially long-term, low-grade inflammation) is associated with a higher risk of Alzheimers.

If Alzheimer’s risk were a fire:

• Genetics and age are the fuel
• Vascular disease is oxygen
• Chronic inflammation is like dry wind — it can make a fire spread, if one starts, but it doesn’t start the fire by itself.

John claimed in his filing that he was not given any opportunity to participate in my mother’s appointments.

However, this is false, I have text messages between John and I and I asked him if he would like to drive my mother to her oral surgery appointment; to which he did.

John also claimed that I had canceled my mom’s appointments, however I have audio of John telling me he was canceling all of my moms appointments.

I have wondered what his intentions were for doing this, including taking complete control over mom’s medical care- despite my mother adamantly saying she wanted me to take care of that aspect. My mom has every right to have a say so in the matters of her own health. John however, did not want this. John manipulated my mother by telling her that I was incompetent, that I had “fucked up” and got my mom’s tooth pulled out for “no reason”

John claimed that I had not gone through Insurance, this was false.

I most certainly did provide insurance information to my mom’s providers.

John had also told my mother and family members that I had put down a “different patient’s name” and that I had put the “wrong birthday” on my mom’s paperwork. This is also false. John continuously gave family members, and my mother- in her confused state, misinformation. This gave way for them to assume that i should not be trusted with my mom’s appointments.

John intentionally placed me in that false light.

• John knowingly and deliberately misrepresented and mischaracterized me.
• He made others see me in a misleading, offensive, negative way
• The image or impression he created wasn’t true, and he meant to do it

He portrayed me unfairly, on purpose.

John started telling my mother that I was incompetent and that I was not to be trusted and should not be involved in any of this. John began calling me names,  shouting at me anytime I spoke to my mom. John screamed “Shut up!” “stupid!,” “idiot!,” or “You are a fuck up!” John encouraged my mother to say these things to me as well. I have this in audio.

My involvement regarding my mother’s tooth extraction was merely scheduling the appointment, and bringing her to the evaluation. (The evening of the evaluation, John returned home much later than his usual 4p.m.) John returned home at 8p.m. He said he attended a “get together” after work. Mom and I were already in bed by the time he arrived, but I did send John a text asking him if he would drive mom to the oral surgery appointment- and to which he did. I told John that I would “not have insurance on my car after today” which was the reason I asked him to drive her-

Perhaps John took from this; that there was no insurance on the dental- it is possible that he failed to read my message correctly.

Despite this- I did involve John throughout the process of ALL of my mother’s medical appointments, and findings. I placed a large dry erase board calendar in the entryway hallway, and I also stuck a list with all dates, locations, phone numbers, (with full details) on the refrigerator- we verbally discussed mom’s medical appointments, I sent text messages to John prior to her appointments: nothing was done in secret, nothing was done without John’s participation or acknowledgment. The list on the fridge contained the list of upcoming and past appointments: lab work and MRA scans dental and other appointments that John had previously not taken my mother to. Some of the orders were from over two years ago, and mom’s neurologist still requested that the imaging be completed. The neurologist renewed the orders, I scheduled the appointments, I drove my mom, and accompanied her during those imaging and lab work appointments. I provided moms’ insurance information. I marked these appointment dates, facility name, address, and their contact information on the big calendar and I stuck the appointments on the refrigerator. I included a copy of this list in my filing. 

I made sure that John was entirely informed and I encouraged his involvement throughout the process, we have had discussions about this. My uncle, Ihsan recommended the maxillofacial surgeon, and he had also recommended the ENT. We decided to use those recommended doctors as they were trusted and family members had used them before without issue, my mom was directly referred to those specialists, and was not an independently made decision on my behalf. A dentist will not pull a tooth “for no reason” as John stated in his filing.

Im also puzzled by statement suggesting that mom had received “bad medical care.” (As John also alleged in his filing).

John was the one who had completely ignored my mother’s diagnosis and yelled at her, relentlessly, despite him having access to her reports- he failed to acknowledge what the pet scan revealed- it was as  if he was in denial, he remained frustrated and impatient with my mother, screaming at her until she was in tears.

All I could do was record, audio, and video, and document the ongoing abuse.

I am not aggressive, nor am I confrontational. The times that I’d spoken up for my mother- seemed to get me nowhere- but consequently caused Johns’ abuse to get worse: and even more insidious.

Despite my willingness to present clear video and audio evidence—(including transcribed overlays on audio recordings in video format- from TikTok) My concerns were repeatedly ignored, minimized, or dismissed. The judge did not watch any of the videos, and if she had, she would clearly see how fearful I am of being near John, especially while I was recording him.

Law enforcement had also failed to intervene, or offer protection. They stated “yelling is not illegal” and they had no interest to take any action once they had spoken with John. John did not disclose the fact that my mother was diagnosed with FTD Alzheimer’s disease and was in the moderate stages. In this regard; yelling at someone with such a diagnosis is illegal according to Chapter 74.34.020 RCW. (My mom was diagnosed in March 2023).

The police did not want to hear anything that I had to say, and they did not want to

see any of the videos I’d recorded. No action was taken to ensure our safety or hold the abuser (John M Wallach) accountable. The judge too, refuses to watch the videos- unless they were transcribed. This came as a shock to me as I had asked the clerk two days prior to this hearing how I would present video evidence to the court, and she said that I could show evidence directly from my phone. I will, however, attach this evidence in the flash drive attached to this appeal and transcribed. My mother is at risk, she is now alone with the abuser- this is an emergency. 

Under California Penal Code § 633.5, I understand that it is lawful to record communications without the other party’s consent for the purpose of collecting evidence related to domestic violence, threats of bodily harm, or coercion. That was precisely my intent.

When all institutional systems failed, I shared segments of these recordings publicly via TikTok—not out of malice or retaliation, but as a last resort to:

• Protect myself and others from continued harm
• Create a truthful, transparent record
• Hold accountable those whom institutions refused to act against
• Plead for help and protection from the public and professionals

All posted content was factual, unedited, and did not identify John or reveal our full names or address. I did not act with malice, nor did I intend to harass or defame. There was no admission of guilt in any of my comments in these videos, and my sole intent was to be heard after traditional systems refused to listen.

Accordingly, I strongly assert that issuing a restraining order against me—as an advocate for a victim of domestic violence—is both unreasonable and unjust. It effectively silences the only person witnessing and documenting the abuse and it shields the abuser from accountability.

This is the second time John M. Wallach has filed a restraining order against me:

• His first application was denied after he admitted to using the process improperly in an attempt to evict me. He was advised to use appropriate civil channels instead.
• In that filing, John also acknowledged that I had not committed any form of abuse and denied any abuse to him and toward my mother.

Now, in this second application, John has inconsistently claimed physical abuse by me during the same time period—contradicting his prior sworn statement. He also committed perjury when he stated that law enforcement officers “wanted him” to file for a restraining order.

To my knowledge, John has never contacted law enforcement regarding any alleged incident involving me. In contrast, I have made repeated calls and in-person reports throughout the past year, including reports of John’s verbal abuse and belittling of my mother, a vulnerable adult.

During these interactions, John often told responding officers:

“None of those things are happening. Rebecca has sociopathic personality disorder and will lie about everything. The real issue is we want her out of this house.”

I’ve never been diagnosed with any personality disorder nor any sociopathy. Any mental health evaluations that I underwent as a 10 year old child; were related to trauma that I experienced while living in the home of John Wallach, and was a direct result including abuse inflicted by John himself. None resulted in a diagnosis of a chronic mental health condition.

The judge at the hearing on July 31, 2025, improperly guided the petitioner into testimony about my alleged mental health, which is irrelevant, violates my medical privacy and introduces bias. The court should not permit a non-expert witness to offer speculative psychiatric diagnoses. John is not a medical professional and has no access to my records. John’s claims are completely made up, it’s less than hearsay, it’s John attempting to present me in a negative light, through stigma, in order to discredit me.

Most importantly, I would like to educate the court that per the DSM-5, personality disorders should not be diagnosed before age 18. This shows that John was lying to the judges’ question regarding a diagnosis of me at age 10 years old. John intentionally mislead the court about my character, mental health, and he derailed the basis of my argument.

Referencing childhood mental health history is irrelevant and prejudicial- especially since the judge did not allow litigation of my filing- especially with new evidence, (the letters from John’s’ mother in support of  my prior allegations against John)

In these letters, it does speak about John’s temper, but it also describes how John drags me by my hair- when I was 10 years old- that portion of my life was what I wanted relitigated, not my mental health after the abuse John put me through.

Despite me having new evidence, my case was not litigated, nor relitigated. The transcripts filed in my application were from an audio of John Wallach admitting to the abuse he inflicted against me when I was just 10 years old. He described dragging me up and down the stairs by my hair. The new evidence- I obtained, and filed in my application were letters from John’s mother. In the letters, John’s mother wrote to John telling him that he needed to stop dragging Rebecca by her hair and that John needed to stop hitting Rebecca. She told John that he was hitting me as if I was a “grown man,” she told him that his loud yelling was harmful to me, and to his sons.

I included these letters in my application, it was filed. Case: 25PSRO01341.

John alleged that I had a “long history of violent crimes.” This is false. John Wallach also claimed that I had made “threats toward his wife and dog,” allegedly considering me a threat from a “knife” incident that he neither witnessed nor had even happened.

There is no police report. It never happened.

I have never harmed an animal, nor have I ever threatened to hurt anyone, nor harmed anyone. I am the most generous, caring person I know. I have had animals throughout my entire life, and I’ve have had my Maine Coon, Grayson, for nine years; he is healthy and happy.

Despite John splitting open my bedroom door—claiming he did so as a Good Samaritan because I “needed help” when I wasn’t even home—the day before he filed his request for a DVRO, John had given my mother a 30-day notice, (to give to me)  John continuously threatens to kick my mother out of the house as well- (if she doesn’t get rid of me) he also threatens that she will (lose all claim to her assets, including the home), if she doesn’t “remove me from their home and life.” I have audio recording of John telling my mother that it was her fault that I had come back home and that she was responsible for “getting rid of me” and “fixing the situation” however at the hearing that took place in March 2025 John committed perjury stating that I had forced my way into their house, and that I was “not wanted” there. In fact, I was wanted there by my mother because John refused to help her and continue to yell at her and scream at her when she needed help. I came in to help my mother and I have been fulfilling that role for her- including prior to my move-in in April 2024. 

I repeat, Johns’ filing of restraining orders against me is retaliatory, he files abusing court process because I reported him- I insist that this is an illegal eviction tactic by John. The reason John prefers to use the restraining order- is so that I “don’t return” I have audio of John telling this to law-enforcement (after they had told him to file for an Eviction if he wanted me out) I overheard John telling the deputy, I filed for a RO because I don’t want her to come back, and it would be an immediate move out.

There was never any reason given, even to law-enforcement as for why John wanted me “out.” The reason John wanted me out was because I called and reported him.

I continued to report him, every time his behavior was inappropriate towards my mother- shouting at a vulnerable adult is illegal.

I have audio and video of this as well. 

Additionally, in the days before John’s filing.. I texted my uncle Ihsan, the definition of “isolation” 

WIC § 15657.03

(along with audio of John not allowing my mother to speak to me, and not allowing my mother to bring her phone)  

I am sure that Ihsan forwarded this to John, which may have also prompted John to file an even more egregious restraining order against me, including blatantly false accusations of threats of physical harm.

John’s repeated lies, manipulation, and undue influence over my mother—serve only one purpose: to improperly isolate her from me, and remove oversight. He repeatedly told my mother that I didn’t “care” for her, that my affection was a “show of love,” that I “enjoyed seeing her cry,” and that I “wanted her to suffer.” He used fear, manipulation, and constant verbal abuse to destroy our trust—often shouting that I was “dangerous” or a “stupid idiot,” especially in my mother’s presence. There is no foundation to John’s claims.

John further alleged that I posted his “phone passcode” online. The content he referenced came from a password-protected blog I shared only with my uncle, Ihsan. I believe Ihsan may have passed it along to John. John cherry-picked and presented only selective segments of my blog to the court. He could not demonstrate how this harmed him. He admitted no financial loss occurred, stating:

“No money was taken; nothing was transferred away.”

This raises the question: why was johns’ prior allegations litigated again? The court should consider the entire blog in context to understand its true intent—which was never malicious. I will provide the full blog post, with timestamps and proof of password protection, as supporting documentation.

John also criticized a comment on a video on my TikTok account. The court should consider all 30,000 in support, and the 500 comments on this video- majority agree that John is abusing my mother.

The judge did not watch the video, the judge did not watch any of the videos, but she considered a single comment.

John Wallach selectively pointed out a comment made on a TikTok video, thi comment was posted by an anonymous person in the public. John suggests that mt response to that comment was proof that I had the passports.

However, I clearly stated in that specific video, that I do not have hers, or his, passport.

The video shows John coming upstairs to where my mother and I were. He walks into the bedroom and says to her in a hushed, hostile tone:

“I told you not to do this, and you went ahead and did it anyway.”

My mother replies,

“She was putting the hair color”—before she can finish her sentence, John cuts her off short: 

“Do not talk to her!”

He then changes the subject and pitch of his voice stating:

“Now we gotta find our passports!”

My mother continues, “She was just putting my hair color, in before it goes bad.” (I am standing outside their door, in the doorway of my restroom. I am recording video, keeping my mother in my line of sight.)

 My mother turns to me,

 “Rebecca, didn’t you say—”

John interrupts my mother, again stating:

“Again! I said, Do not talk to her!” He begins rummaging through my mothers drawers, then walks out of the bedroom. Once I hear him go downstairs, I approach my mother and ask if he yelled at her. She says “no” and begins asking about where I said the passports were. I told her I had her Kuwait passport and naturalization certificate. I did not know where her current passport was (the one where she was a little girl in the passport photo).

John clearly saw this TikTok video, and he made the allegation that I had “destroyed” mom’s naturalization certificate in his filing. 

At the hearing, John states that I gave my mom the naturalization certificate. Thus how could it have been “destroyed”? Where did his allegation of “destroying” it come from?

The assumption that I had been recording John in a threatening manner, or being in close proximity to him while recording— is completely false. In my videos uploaded on TikTok clearly you can see, that i keep a distance from John while I am recording, usually keeping the phone close to my body or inside of my bedroom. I am obviously afraid of him. 

The judge did not watch my videos, and John did not demonstrate that I had recorded him in close proximity.

(I also overheard John drilling open a safe, stating the passports were inside, but that he didn’t recall the code) I will attach this video in the flash drive. 

In his filing, John claimed I “destroyed” my mother’s naturalization certificate. This is false. I was not hiding that I had it. Neither John nor my mother asked me for it. Why would he make such a baseless accusation? I reassert my innocence. I would never harm or act inappropriately toward my mother. I would never withhold her property, or documents. I held my mother’s naturalization certificate because my mother gave me this to keep safe for her. I love my mother with all my heart. She is my best friend. I believe she is being manipulated into acting against me due to John’s undue influence.

I do not have their passports, and having them would serve me no purpose. I also texted John this information. My mother had no issue with me holding her documents in the past. I knowingly posted the TikTok video, meaning I wasn’t hiding anything. John refuses to speak to me respectfully; when I ask questions, he often responds with insults like “Because you’re an idiot!” or “Because you’re stupid!” Communication with John is nearly impossible as he cannot respond appropriately.

Yes, I had my mother’s naturalization certificate. John never asked me for it, nor did he send my mother to ask me about it. After reading John’s filing, I brought the certificate to court on July 31, 2025, and handed it to my mother during our lunch break in front of Department J.

Regarding the “Chromebook” allegedly “stolen”:
The Chromebook belonged to my mother, she had given it to me, and since my mother was no longer capable of using it, and had not used it in quite a while. John was present when my mother gave her Chromebook to me in May 2023. My mother could not remember the password to her user account. I texted John asking for the password, but he claimed he did not know. I left the computer downstairs on my mother’s shelf. Unbeknownst to me, John has since rendered this laptop usable, and it appears that he does have the password and he claims he was “using it,” & now suddenly says I’d “stolen.” I’ve repeatedly told John where the computer was, on my mom’s shelf, but John will accuse me of stealing despite not having any evidence that I have ever “stolen” anything from them in the past. No money had been transferred away. I did not steal the Chromebook.

The fact that John reasserted that I had stolen from him, any opportunity that he can, he has manipulated my mom in this way as well, falsely accusing me of stealing a lamp, his Apple Watch, his chop sticks, checks, Etc. all of these items are still where they have always been, for years, and never have any of these items been misappropriated in any way.

John has lied to the police falsely claiming that my car was “stolen” too.

My car is paid off.

John told family members, (specifically my youngest brother, Alexander Wallach) that I had been “hiding” my car in the backyard- encouraging that he “guess why” my car was parked back there. He suggested that I “didn’t want people to know”

There was a brief period when I had parked my car in their backyard. But it was never due to me hiding my car from anyone, and less tempting but because it there made it inconvenient for me to hop in the car, and go short distances I stopped paying my insurance in December of 2024. I did not want to be tempted to drive, while I did not have auto insurance and suspended registration on my car.

My health insurance covered transportation to and from my doctor’s appointments.

And my mom would accompany me to my doctor’s appointments in the Uber.

This is a personal attack at me dismissing the growth that i have made since personal mistakes that i have made in my past. I am not ashamed of my past, as it has shaped who I am today.

My biological father was a drug addict.

John has never contributed anything towards my car.

I worked hard, and I paid it off myself.

Regarding protected animals in John’s restraining order application:

 The reason the Rottweiler (ash) was put outside was because I had called the police when I arrived home and seen that John had broken into my bedroom. John claims that he did this as a good Samaritan and thought that there was a emergency despite me not being home. He split the frame of my door, he had taken items out of my room bedroom, where I have established residency. I had left the house for only an hour, and nobody had called me.

He waited until I left so he could break into my bedroom and take items such as the device that held evidence of John physically and verbally emotionally abusing my mother and I. I have audio of John’s admission of this July 11, 25, and he knowingly took this evidence and filed outrageous claims, believing that I’d have no way of defending myself. I have audio of John saying that he unplugged the WiFi because he knew that this was how I tracked the location of my iPhone.

John unplugged the WiFi, and stated he would defend himself (should I mention him unplugging the WiFi) by saying he unplugged it the WiFi because he thought I was going to steal it.

This is sufficient evidence of John fabricating that I was stealing- to cover up his own bad behavior.

The reason that the dog was outside was because the police would not enter the home unless the dog was put away. I have audio of this interaction with law enforcement, from July 11, 2025, there was never any threats to harm the Rottweiler or my mother.

John also failed to mention two kittens that are also in the home. He also failed to mention that I groom his dog, clean up after his dog, take his and my moms’ dog and 3 cats’ to the vet, I put food in the cats and dogs bowl, provide fresh water for all the animals daily, I buy the cat food the litter and the treats for the cats, and I have even purchased a 2 story hutch for the 2 kittens.

On or around May 1, 2025, we adopted two new kittens into our home. I became aware that they had tapeworm and I promptly brought them in to the vet. I was advised to treat all the animals in the home, because “if one has it, then they all do.”

I took my cat Grayson and I brought the two new kittens in my car and had those dewormed. I then texted John that he needed to deworm Bebe and Ash.John failed to take dog (ash) and cat (Bebe) to the vet for deworming. 

Less than 30 days later—(July 7, 2025) my mother and I were gluing a popsicle stick to a paper plate (we were making a fan for her to fan herself off because it was very hot in the house) I glanced at what the kittens were eating on the dog’s bed. And i saw a giant pile of throw up. It had clearly come from the dog, and my mom and I saw live worms squirming within the throw up. 

I Identified the worms as “roundworms,” and the kittens were eating the expelled throw up, and worms, from the dog’s bed. 

I put the kittens in the hutch so that they would stop eating it, and I told John we need to get all the animals dewormed. There was no threats about harming the dog.

The day before John filed this restraining order, my mom and I drove to Ontario spay and neuter and had all five of the animals in the house dewormed at once. During the drive home, one of the kittens had expelled poop, with worms in it.

I did not mind this at all however, while driving home, the dog decided to jump in my lap- as we approached the house. The dog became excited /anxious to get out of the car- recognizing that we were close to home. (This is an 86 pound Rottweiler. She has long nails that dug into me) I did not waste any time to respond- I did not want to crash because of the dog spontaneously jumping on me. We got home safe. I paid out of pocket for the deworming. The total for all 5 animals to receive dewormer was $210.00. 

 I asked John for reimbursement, but it wasn’t necessary, my intention was to ensure that the animals were treated- and eliminate the risk of re-infection due to being inconsistent with treatment (I will attach the receipt). 

John gave my mom a 30 day notice to move out, to give to me as soon as we got home. The paper never ended up in my hands. But I have audio of this, John started screaming at me. You’re dangerous! You’re dangerous!  get away from us! For no apparent reason. I have  audio of John, and this entire encounter, beginning from the moment I walked in the house with all the animals. John instructed my mom to go upstairs and kick my door. This was inappropriate of him, as are many other things he does and instructs my vulnerable mother to do.

If I truly did not care about animals, would I transport five animals in my car and pay out of my own pocket to eliminate their suffering from parasites? John knew what was occurring and still refused to address it, despite reminding John of the health hazards from this exposure. Not attending to this issue posed as a risk to all of our health. (Especially because my mom does not wash her hands appropriately), and especially because I’m suffering igA, igG, and igM deficiency, I could easily be infected as my immune system is nearly depleted due to autoimmune disfunction.

When we got home, I began unloading all of the animals from the car and my mom went  into the house with the dog. She hadn’t washed her hands yet, and she already had her fingers in her mouth, biting at her thumb nails.

I motioned to my mom to come to the kitchen sink, I put soap on her hands, and turned on the faucet. I wanted to make sure, especially after being at the vet- that her hands were thoroughly washed. I was not aggressive- I showed her how to wash her hands, by using my own hands- I prompted her to rub her hands together with the soap- (because she was only washing one hand). 

There was no argument, I never laid a hand on my mother. Why would I start, suddenly now? This allegation was clearly false. I do not have a record of violence. I do not have a record of theft. I’ve never been accused of stealing by anyone, and I have never had any accusations of harming any person or animal.  

I have documentation of John, encouraging my mother to hit me, pull my hair, yell, kick me, and my bedroom door, and John will send text messages to me using my mothers phone- and I know that it’s him, because I have asked my mother if she sent me certain messages, and she has denied this. I acknowledge my mother no longer knows how to read/write text messages, and she does not know how to initiate a phone call either. This confirms John’s’ intentions to use my mother and her position in my life, weaponizing her against me- and inciting conflict between us. 

John has stated that he wants out of this relationship with my mother and has openly stated to my mom, that he would like to have sex with other women in their bedroom. This audio is included in the flash drive.

John has stated that he considers my mom “out of the picture” and wants to “live his life.”  John has no intention of caring for my mother and has no experience in this field, nor the patience. He is not someone that you can trust to be responsible for my mom.

I have ample evidence to refute any further allegations John may bring regarding me harming my mother and attacking my character. I will include relevant proof, that despite my previous drug history, I have program completed substance abuse treatment in regards to the drug convictions from over 13 years ago- I lost more than could bear. My life is much different today. I will provide evidence on a flash drive, and accomplishments since.

I believe that the audios of my interactions with my mother are relevant, and If the court cares to review interactions between my mother and me, I can provide these recordings upon request. This would demonstrate how close my mother and I are, how much I do for my mom, and how much my mother depended on me. I am fully aware of her diagnosis. I love my mom, she means the world to me and I would never put her in harm’s way, nor would I ever seek payment for helping her. I do not want any part of an inheritance, and I do not have any interest any assets or money. I have no interest whatsoever in asking for any. All I ask, is that my mother be treated with dignity and respect- simple basic human rights and curiosity- something that John Wallach is not capable of. John cares about “moving on with his life” working 12 hours or more a day, dating, traveling, spending time with his sons, and refusing to provide support and care for my mother. John is having an affair with women he meets online. John prioritizes sex, even when my mother is not comfortable with “doing it” with him. She doesn’t have the capacity to understand what is happening to her, and numerous nights my mother has come to my room naked and confused, i would walk her to her wardrobe in a spare bedroom, at get her dressed. John stopped allowing my mother to ask me for help, and he himself would not help her. He then would manipulate my mother, tricking her by telling her it was time to shower, just to get my mother undress, so that he could have sex with her. Even still my mother was confused and did not want to have sex, she wanted to get dressed and she became anxious about not having assistance to get dressed when john – after his first restraining orders application was denied, he began taking my mother an hour and a half away to my uncle’s house in Capistrano. My mom didn’t want to go. But John would force her out the door at 5am, anyway. John continues to consume large quantities of THC, Wax, Gummies and edibles, which has negatively impacted his mental health and in my opinion- turned him into a monster. John forces my mother to take these substances despite her refusal, he has shoves syringes of wax into my mother’s mouth. John seeks to avoid oversight, which is why he wants me out of the home, he seeks to evade the consequences for his serious negligence and abusive behavior- at all costs. He has not told the truth in his application, and my mother is suffering.

The restraining order against me has only caused more harm to my mother and me. I am already losing her to Alzheimer’s disease, and John is extending his abuse and isolation of my mother through improperly using the court— now he has taken me from my mother.

I respectfully urge the court to dismiss the restraining order and to investigate the evidence I have collected. My hope is that a higher court will recognize that:

• My actions were legal, protected, and taken in the interest of survival—not harassment.
• I acted in good faith to report abuse when all other systems failed.
• I have been unfairly labeled and retaliated against by an abuser trying to silence me.
• Claims about my mental health are speculative, irrelevant, and intended to discredit me.

I am prepared to submit original recordings, unredacted blog posts, and supporting documentation verifying all of the above.

This is too important to overlook, or to allow to continue- on the basis that I had “stalled in my answer” to one of the judges questions. 

 

Submitted in support of:
Declaration of Rebecca A. Wallach
Case Nos. 25PSRO01244 / 25PSRO01341

 

I declare under penalty of perjury under the laws of the State of California that the foregoing is true and correct.

 

Executed on: _________, 2025
Signed: ________________________
Rebecca A. Wallach