(Rebecca): 

Mom already got her meds

(Mom): 

I know I did! I know that! 

I did… i did… I did take my medicine..

She took it..She gave it to me already). 

(John):

I understand that. 

Okay, why do you keep doing this.  

See…You are apart of the problem. 

Because I’m trying to create a separation, so that she knows that she needs to separate from you.  

You, keep going back to her! 

You cannot have her help you with your clothing! You cannot! 

What does that mean?

I don’t want to see this shit anymore! 

You are responsible to get dressed. 

Hold it ! 

(Mom): Ok…

(John):

You cannot.

You’re gonna ask me for help. 

Because here, listen, 

She is moving the fuck out! 

Now. That means that we have to be able to operate as …a team. If we can’t… 

then we need to go and get professional help, and it’s certainly not her!   

That means we have like a very expensive fucking situation here. It would cost at least probably about $400 a fucking week if we had care for you.. we don’t wanna do that..

Okay, now. 

okay. They have will be certified to take care of someone, which she is not. 

Now, if this thing with Bassam would work out… that would be wonderful. 

But he has to say.. that you have to be able to go in his house, and be there without interfering with his and Debbies’ life. If you’re interfering their life, that’s not fair to them.  

And that’s the problem with this situation because, you are seriously interfering with my life, okay? 

I have to take you.. 

Alright now, I’m saying this because you don’t understand the minute I’m done talking, you’ gotta forget everything I said. 

(Mom: No). 

(John):

And that’s what makes this hard. 

You, we are trying to create a situation here where you could be in this home. 

If we can’t create that situation, this is, 

she is not gonna be here. 

If we can’t create that, like I said, then we have a real issue here. 

(Mom):

She bought me all this stuff, all this stuff. The thing, the cone, and all that, I’m like, for what? 

(John): No, you took it. 

(Mom): Hmm? 

(John): You’re an idiot.

You took it. 

(Mom:) 

I know, and what am I gonna do with it.

(John): 

Okay.

This is the problem with this situation. 

It is a toxic situation. 

She is doing this to make you… 

and you… you…you…this is… 

I don’t know how to th-think.

(Mom: Im going to go throw this out).

(John): 

You can’t throw it out here?

I don’t food up here, in this room. 

Eat it now! 

(Mom cries)

(John):

Now. I mean, like literally, the only thing that keeps this relationship going, is the sex, because you don’t, 

you cant do anything else. 

You don’t you’re not going to able, to help make decisions about our finances. 

You cannot, you’re not going to be able to pay the taxes, or utilities, 

or have good insurance. 

Now, 

Okay. I have..I am on my own here. 

I can’t.. so?

It makes it really difficult, 

because.. you hope that you have. 

You saw my friends… 

you can see… 

No.. I.. 

(Mom: what does that mean? 

They’re not partners?)

They are partners.

I’m saying… That they, 

You can see.. that there’s… 

they wanna be together. 

Okay, they want to be together. 

And they think that it’s a good thing that they’re together. 

I mean… Steve.. he… I could guess..

Steve has enough money to be very comfortable. 

He was a frickin… 

he was the top veteran… veterinariary… what do you call it… veterinarian? Veterinarian…in the area… 

in the Philadelphia area. 

Which is… he was the top, 

he was very good… 

Give me your watch.