Just reminding you-

I KNOW MY MOTHER IS NOT CAPABLE OF USING HER CELL PHONE TO SEND LENGTHY COMPLEX TEXT MESSAGES-

LIKE THE MESSAGES YOU SEND TO ME, FROM MY MOMS PHONE.

PRETENDING TO BE HER.

ESPECIALLY CONCERNING A CASE

THAT SHE HAS NO IDEA

WHAT THE CASE IS ABOUT.

NOR SHOULD SHE EVEN BE INCLUDED

AS PARTY TO YOUR DELUSIONAL AGENDA.

YOUR FILING IS AN ABUSE OF PROCESS,

& A WASTE OF TIME!

Not to mention… the hypocrisy

Your case is an “elder abuse” case.

BUT JOHN IS THE ABUSER.

Even if it was my brother that blocked me

on moms’ phone in 2022:

“The act of using a cell phone that belongs to someone else, to send text messages to the persons contacts (& communicating as if the text message came from the cell phone owner, without consent of the owner of that cell phone: is considered a form of elder abuse.

if the person is elderly, or cognitively impaired, this behavior falls under psychological & emotional abuse: which is a form of elder abuse.

John is manipulating communication between the wife and her daughter, interfering with the wife’s autonomy and relationships.

Given my mother’s diagnosis* this action could further harm her by isolating her from Rebecca, and other family members, and would a misrepresentation of her wishes.

If this type of behavior is part of a broader pattern of manipulation, isolation, or control, it may warrant further investigation by adult protective services document any instances and consult with a lawyer or elder abuse advocate–

Mom declines services from APS, she doesn’t want to get John in trouble.

I know that any text messages that come from my mother’s phone:

Is YOU. Texting Me.

(My mom did NOT send those messages to me)

YOU DID.

STOP using my mother’s cell phone. 

I know that you have texted me from my mother’s phone.

You’ve done it more than once.

What you are doing is abusive.

I also know that you have blocked me on my mom’s phone.

You’ve prevented my mom and I from communicating

(for over a year)

I know you won’t admit it,

because you blamed that on Calvin.

You won’t own up to anything you’ve done. 

What a mind fuck.

How dare you.

You have some nerve meddling with my mother and I.

LEAVE US ALONE.

If anyone demanded that you to stop speaking to one of your biological children— you’d probably kill them.. Wouldn’t you John?

You are evil.

Dr. Martins’ office called moms phone and she passed the phone to me, they asked if they could reschedule mom’s follow up post op visits to a different date, ah and the same thing happened with Dr. Ruby, mom’s new therapist. 

I don’t play games when it comes to mom’s health.

I don’t play games like you.

AT ALL.

No one is intentionally “messing” with mom’s appointments.

START TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY.

IT WAS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO MAKE SURE MOM WAS GETTING TO HER DOCTORS APPOINTMENTS- regardless of your opinion!

YOU CANNOT IGNORE THE DIAGNOSIS—

Resuming as usual…

AS IF YOU KNOW MORE THAN A NEUROLOGIST!!??

YOU IGNORED MOMS’ WANTS HER NEEDS AND HER MEDICAL CARE: AND YOUR YOU SICK SON OF A BITCH FOR FILING IN COURT.

AND MANAGE TO MANIPULATE MY MOTHER INTO PLAYING YOUR FUCKED UP GAME,

JUST TO GET MY MOMS’ BROTHERS IN YOUR BACK-POCKET AS “WITNESS” TO USE AGAINST ME—

I could end you

But

Little pricks like you

aren’t worth it.

Please.

Stop making my mom’s last few years on this earth miserable.

I didn’t change mom’s appointments on you

as you have suggested..

Don’t try and dish off your past neglect, and irresponsibility on me.

When you married my mom, you made a vow to her, that you would love her in sickness or in health.

But it seems that since mom has fallen into sickness-

you haven’t loved her.

You have manipulated her.

Taking control of certain aspects of her affairs doesn’t include deciding who she can and cannot love, how she should feel, what she should say, you send text messages (to me) from moms cell phone, as if you wanted me to believe that it was being delivered to me from my mom.. I know she doesn’t know how to send complex text messages.. and I know that you do this without telling her.

Because i asked her..

Without permission, you put a password on my mother’s cell phone, & You blamed me.

My mom becoming sick does not mean that you can do absolutely whatever you want. You can’t make decisions for her that go against her wishes, my mom would never be a party to this.

She would not testify against me.

But you got her to do it,

under threat.

My mom is a vulnerable adult and you are an abuser.

You are trying to irradiate me from my mothers life, you have been trying to do this my entire life.

I’m her only daughter.

My mother picked ME as her caregiver. I don’t care what the hell you told her to say, she’s incompetent,

you have tormented my mother to the point now that

she’s checked out. .

And you failed and you failed..

And you blamed me and you blamed me for your faults and you made shit up, and again.

And you slander me to my family.

Both doctors called mom’s phone (days apart) and asked to reschedule.

They both were not available for 2 weeks around Christmas time. 

It was the holidays. You might want to call their office and confirm that fact, before you go around telling people what a terrible person I am.

Do that.

before you go embarrassing yourself in court. 

You are taking way too much edibles.

(Did you know that stuff causes schizophrenia in elderly people)?

It’s actually really sad that you get to buy all these drugs for yourself and you give my mom NO MONEY AT ALL

She can’t even buy herself a necklace when we go to the store.

Believe me, every time we go, I buy her something.

Because you financially abuse my mother.

You want control over everything,

So you can use it in the wrong ways.

https://videopress.com/v/Ffgg3pFl?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true

(John said no)

Something is wrong with John.

Shame on any person that has helped him carry out his abuse.

Moms’ appointments are viewable in the Providence app.

YOU have access to that.

and I know you have access:

Because you have the ability to order mom’s pills.

& Providence sends you & mom

text message alerts,

& appointment reminders

all the time. 

I haven’t made you miss any appointments.

You missed mom’s appointments:

because you are

irresponsible,

narcissistic

piece of garbage.

Stop telling my family members lies, because you fail to gather the facts before you point the blame– 

It’s actually sad to see how bad you want to see me get locked up!

This person who adopted me

wants the worst for me.

You would never treat Calvin or Alex this way

no matter how hard they tried to piss you off. 

& I’m not trying to piss you off at all,

not even trying to make you proud either. 

You are unorganized

You haven’t been responsible with mom’s health,

You’ve delegated your responsibilities to me

(more than once)

I haven’t messed anything up. 

I do not have access to  moms’ Providence account. 

& Anything that I have accessed

was accessed with mom’s consent.

I don’t need your consent.

My mom gave me consent.

(But we did ask your permission, for shits and giggles… and since you said no, and refused to give a reason, mom agreed to give me guardianship). I was in the process of getting guardianship, literally, just printing out the forms… then you threw a hot iron at me while I was styling my mother’s hair-

You lied. You made up some compelling excuse in response to the allegations, and you fed that big pile of 💩 to the police.

& they let you go.

The police let you go.

You stuffed my mom in your car under the impression that you were taking her to CVS Pharmacy- but you didn’t.

You drove her with you to the Pomona Courthouse, where you filed an EA 100- against me.

Maybe she wouldn’t remember, but

11/05/2024 was the night that mom overdosed on her medication- you didn’t think it was important to take mom to the emergency, so I called Bassam and told him what happened.

(which is why he sent the locking medication box)

Bassam called you, and he convinced you that mom should be taken in to the emergency room. 

So you took her.

But after you took a shower 🙄

You really should not leave mom alone 12+ hours a day.

It was negligent of you to do that, knowing mom can’t cook.

You knew she couldn’t even use the microwave- 

You yelled at her for not knowing how to use the washing machine or the dryer— 

yes, you can give her verbal prompts and she will do whatever it is that you say to do.

But that requires someone to be here with her.. right? 

But when you add threats to leave her, or threaten to throw her out of her own house because she speaks to her daughter..

You have her on puppet strings then

Don’t you?

I have been here w/ mom every day. I am the one who cooks her breakfast and lunch- while you are away at work.

(Sometimes cooking dinner for her… because you’ve decided to only prepare dinner for yourself).

I am the one washing moms clothes. I hunt down hidden underwear, and socks, I get mom dressed nearly every morning.

I even dressed her up for your court hearing, the elder abuse restraining order you filed against me.

I’m awake with my mom when she’s sundowning. You still don’t know what that experience is like.

It’s frightening for my mom

She thought you weren’t home, she had to look out my bedroom window several times to see if your car was in the driveway.

I showed her my car out Alex’s bedroom window.

She still believed that she was at “the club” and that she was a “go-go dancer.”

I’m glad I was able to be here to go through that with my mom,

so she didn’t have to go through it alone.

As you always force her to do fend for herself, and struggle in her disease on her own

I change yours and my moms bedsheets

I wash them, and I put them away.

I take your empty water bottles downstairs,

I wash the dishes in the sink,

and I put them away,

i sweep, and I mop the floors,

I wipe the crumbs from countertops, and the kitchen table.

I clean up after the animals,

your dog sheds a lot,

I clean the cats litter boxes,

and I give them all food and water. 

I clean up after you too.

You have never once said thank you.

You tell me to shut up, you call me a piece of shit, you call me a fuck up, you call me an idiot in front of my mother.

You have encouraged my mother, my best friend, to do the same.

Shame on you.

How old are you, anyway?

Should you really be responsible for my mom?

I don’t think you’re the caring type.

You don’t allow my mom to receive care, you have prevented her from receiving medical care for over 1 year and a half.

Everything else that you won’t allow, we have to either tip-toe around you, or wait til your not here.

I do all of this for my mom,

and I never complain.

He only reason I have to explain myself ids because you have brought a case against me that has no truth and even your witnesses are tainted.

My mom testified that I was “bad to my daughter“

Lie: I have proof that my daughter was not abused nor neglected by me, I gave her up for adoption at birth.

I know those were your words coming out of her mouth, because you didn’t understand why a social worker didn’t want to give them my baby.

Do i really need to explain?

It was hard for me to let her go and I’ll fight myself for making that decision forever because I regret it, even though

I know I wasn’t ready for a child.

Mom testified that she would rather die than live with me, but I can guarantee that my mom doesn’t mean that. She means she can’t live with John, because he treats her poorly.

I do all of this without you or mom 

ever having to ask. 

Mom and I had a pretty good system, going (up until Dec 18, 2024 – January 6th) I felt that my mom and I were the closest we’ve ever been. 

You tried to stop us from having any kind of normal relationship, as mother and daughters do.

You tried forcing her make that decision on her own by telling her that her son would never speak to her again. Because mom “spoke to Rebecca.”

& When that didn’t work, you demanded my mom not to have any interaction with me, i heard all of the nasty things that you said about me.

Your mind is sick.

You made my mom cry when you forced her to choose between her children. 

I comforted her and reminded her that it wasn’t true.

You need to acknowledge that I have been here, helping my mother, because she has a diagnosis that she won’t “improve herself from”

and i can’t imagine what my mom would do, or what shape she would be in

if she was stuck here alone with you. 

And every time you hurt her,

Manipulate her,

Or threaten her.. she comes to me.

my mom knows she can rely on me,

I might not be financially able to,

But I’ve taken 1000 beatings from you :

for my mom.

I’d do anything for her.

I’m still here!

Even if she turns around and said she didn’t love me anymore.

I’ll still love her, nothing you do can change my mind.

I don’t ask for compensation, because that is what good children do. 

Apparently.

Mom was comfortable enough to come to me when she overdosed, mom has always come to me when she needed some one to talk to, because you can be nearly impossible to communicate with- most of the time. 

Not without it becoming an argument, hearing you scream profanities, yelling at the top of your lungs, name calling. 

I know that from experience. 

FYI that is verbal abuse. 

(It’s probably the reason why your wife is uncomfortable with telling you anything). 

You ignore that I’ve been here with her, taken her with me to several of my own doctor’s appointments, and since you made these new rules, that my mom can’t interact with me and can’t go anywhere with me-

I show up at my doctors appointments suddenly without mom.

It’s not like me to not have mom.

And they asked me where’s your mom?

Your mom is always with you. 

And I break down and I tell them them what you are doing and that you filed this ELDER ABUSE restraining order against me, i show them what you’ve written.

And I tell them,

I’m moments away from a crisis.

You are clearly manipulating my mom, you’re trying to make her hate me, but she can’t, it’s not from the heart. It’s John controlling my mom for his own purpose,

or attempting to make evidence where there is none.

I show them the videos from 1/02, 01/03, 01/04, and they can’t believe their ears or their eyes.

The truth is, the only person abusing anyone here, is YOU. 

It’s always been you.

And you threaten to sever my relationship with my mom for 5 years- using the court system improperly, to extend your abuse.

I don’t have 5 years left on this earth. 

But Maybe if I’m lucky.

If I’m lucky, I’ll have justice.