Okay so this is a branch off the “password” incident.
Lord forgive me.
I feel like anyone walking in my shoes would’ve done the same thing,
but it is what it is.
After being accused of doing so many many things- this man has made it a trend around here that if we lose something we blame Rebecca and if we misplaced something, Rebecca took it, and we don’t immediately logically help them look for it. He will belittle me, berate me, and speak ill of me in front of my mother, causing her and encouraging her to immediately blame Rebecca, as well.
John has made it (no secret) that he does not like me and, (never has) despite him adopting me-
John’s’ dislike towards me is only his own personal opinion.
And let me tell you, just because you don’t like somebody- does not give you the right to slander them, falsely accuse them to the police, and openly expressed his hopes and dreams that I be arrestesd.
What the hell type of person preys on their adopted childs arrest.
BUT. Most importantly, he wants that person (me) arrested through false reports!
Anyone who chooses to represent this man!!
BEWARE! I promise you that this man is phyc aho
(opps)
I have my i’s dotted and t’s crossed.
I can prove he is a liar!
so.
Just because you don’t like someone, Even if that person happens to be your child- STILL!!! It does not give you the right to abuse them., falsely accuse them, for the pure purpose of separatiing me from my mom! You should not need to persuade everyone else not to like them as well . It is unfair to reach out to that persons family, to manipulate their feelings towards that person- doing things that would interfere with their personal lives- all to align with your own personal views through the means of providing false information- and constantly spreading misinformation, false accusations, even persuading people who aren’t even involved to join him, for the wrong reasons.
Hence, The reason I’ve decided to publish this-
I don’t care if anyone reads my online journal.
I don’t care if ANY one agrees with me.
I don’t care I don’t care.
I just want my mom safe.
& Should I ever be arrested for one of his erroneous accusations, and my poor mother be manipulated into agreeing with his madness—
(chances are VERY LIKELY- John talks shit in his sleep) 😳
Then I would hope that this blog provides a timeline, somewhat.
Public defenders are underpaid, limited on time and resources . Please. Figure out what this guy is doing.
If I’m alone in this, then Ill do what I have to do. My perseverance may (eventually) lead to justice.
I miss my mom. I miss her so much. I can’t believe I’m losing my mom like this. I’ve endured enough abuse from this guy. And I feel like being here for my mom heals something in me, I lost the chance to be a mother, and i need to be here for my mom- she deserves respect, she deserves support.
and honestly, I can see now how it was so difficult for her to protect me from him. It’s because he wouldn’t let her. Just like,
he wont let me.
My mom. She is intelligent. She is funny, silly, cute & i dont know what it is —but she always (even now) still knows how to cheer me up, my mom could fix anything, build anything, and we had our nicknames for thing like mozzarella cheese is Ding dong cheese, and John- has always been an idiot.,
HELL NO. She would NOT be okay him making decisions for her in this frame of mine.
And god it SUCKS that Calvin and Alex are so far away.
I miss them too.
Mom and I, We have had our disagreements, but we move past. We don’t hold onto it, I dont like negativity, resentments, keeping tallies, & most of all, we have never never let any of her marriages get between us. NEVER.
Until now.
I have been accused by her husband, my adoptive father, John. He accuses me, without merit, motivated by his own personal gains- for attention maybe. The goal, his goal, is now to play the victim.
Its literally ridiculous to imagine anyone would ever believe that.
I do not provoke his bad behavior, and you cannot claim that my mere existence provoked him to abuse my mother.
There’s no way, I am definitely no “aggressor” (far from it)
Please find the videos.
I have been handcuffed in the backseat of a cop car over accusations of “stabbing my mother” none are true, and John incited this and other incidents like this by convincing my mom- (repeated “warnings” that I was “dangerous” would harm her)
NOT COOL.
I will promise you that- the reason my mother said these thing was because he has been pressuring her to do so.
Because John CONSTANTLY tells her I’m dangerous. Constantly accuses me of stealing, constantly accuses me of lying, constantly calls me a “fuck up.”
Had I not been recording, watching out for his kind of foul play, I would probably be in jail right now.
For sake of god. Leave me alone!
Let me be here for my poor mother.
He can’t keep on this way, his relentlessness and uphill battle is CRUEL!
No way, he can’t eradicate me from “his life” indefinitely- through manipilating and isolating my mom. I WAS HERE WITH HER EVERY DAY WHILE HE WORKED 12+hours a day! Im up with my mom ehen she sun downs.
If he messes with my relationship with my mother, she loses her safe person.
This is bad for my health. I’ve missed 5 infusion because I refuse to leave her alone with him.
This fight will kill me.
An eviction could not be enough, no. He had to play dirty and throw some bullshit and crazy making in the mix just to throw every one off.
He slanders me like he aint got nothing to lose.
Sure, he adopted me. But he’s married to my biological mother (who is very close with me) and he has no right to prevent me from seeing her!!
John behavior surrounding me having any sort of relationship with my mom has been met with constant hostility and incorrigible behavior.
John has filed a bogus restraining order against me, additionally, he has manipulated my mother to believing whatever he tells her. He is straining our relationship- for his benefit.
That is something that he cannot and he should not do.
It’s not healthy for my mom to be manipulated into severing her relationship with me, though the use of false accusations. John is meddling with my relationship with my mother, and it needs to stop! My mom has FTD Alzheimer’s.
OK – back to what I was saying!
I came across this screenshot by looking at John’s phone. How and why? Well, I had been falsely accused of putting a password on my mom’s phone.
Sadly, my mom believed him and got upset with me.
On that day, my mother and I lost a bit of our spark. She lost a little of trust, and (I felt, that out closeness was slipping away)
This was the day that my mom started to believe whatever John was telling her.
The next day, John was yapping about stuff to my mom, of course, he brags about everything to her, even though she doesn't understand or respond correctly.
It doesn’t matter if it’s
something good or something bad,
John still brags about it.
(he has no shame. no fear of being caught, no one is going challenge him, and no one will question his motives for making certain decisions, any abuse that occurs or appears to be, is not something my mother is able to recognize. It really is unfortunate- but this truely is something that no one is going to be able to catch him (otherwise) this is his true self. Had I not documented this- you wouldn’t believe me
John goes off as if this was some sort of accomplishment…to have manipulated her.
John admitted that he had been the one who put the password on my my mom’s phone, I was recording this conversation- John admitted to it. He even set out loud what the password was.
My mom didn’t put two and two together (because of course she’s not well)
He said he set her password to be the same as his own password. “554433”
So of course, I was angry and I realized that this was what he was doing— and just for proof (mostly to myself) that I wasn’t hearing things and I’m not crazy because I would never know his password anyway!
The code unlocked his phone.
What type of mental health disorder would cause a person to say something like this…?
“Sorry to burden you but This had gone on far too long, (30 years) my sister thinks I’m clueless to tolerate destructive behavior and be in this situation. She says I should leave immediately. As a precursor to our discussion. Consider this, I am going to demand (I have access to legal resources) that Eman remove Rebecca from our home/life or she (Eman) loses all claim to the house and assets.”
So asked ChatGPT,
and here is the response I got:
Thank you ChatGPT, you nailed it.
There's only one Beckieness 
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