And maybe everything happens for a reason.

Maybe I found my way back home
because this was where I needed to be.
Maybe someone prayed for my mom to be safe & cared for. 

My mom will not fare well being isolated from the people she loves and the people who love her.

I don’t think its a good idea to let her be in a hostile environment (with John) he knows my mom is sick, and he still screams at her, threatens her, manipulates her… the psychological, verbal, and emotional abuse is too much. 

Don’t leave someone like him alone with her, she is depressed, anxious, and confused.

I know now that he has medically neglected her, I know that he doesn’t want to help her, he would rather yell and criticize– and this is only going to make things more stressful on my mom, & mom is declining even faster. 

John is trying to make changes to the living will and the estate, while my mom is not agreeing to make those changes, John is now using threats- to accomplish.

(Is this undue influence+ extortion) ?

I dont like being here, but I know that John is not going to be supportive. He’s not going to get up in the night while mom wanders. 

He won’t do her laundry. He’s not going to help her put clothes away, or hang her clothes.

He won’t cook her breakfast or make her lunch, (I’ve seen him hundreds of times cook for himself, but not cook for my mom) he wont wash his own dishes, he wont clean the kitchen, He won’t clean the house. He won’t do her laundry. he isn’t going to take mom to the doctors, he wont schedule appointments. He isn’t going to help her shower, He won’t help her get dressed.
He’s gonna criticize her every time she comes to him with a problem, And when he sees her struggle with something he’s gonna make her feel bad about it as if it was something that she knew how to prevent.
He’s never gonna finish any of these unfinished projects around the house. and my mom…

My mom will suffer, just like everything else John procrastinates finishing.

If my mom ever agrees with him, it isn’t what is in her heart.
He threatened her. I can prove everything.

I’ve documented his abuse, extremely, extremely well.

(Pretend the walls have eyes and ears).